perlu hadapi kenyataan hdup...kadang2 kite d atas..kadang kite d bawah....hidup tdak semestinyer indah...dan tidak jgak suram.....hari nie kite bahagia..esok atau luse mungkin bersedih!!ade yg suka akan kite...ade jgak yg bermusuh ngan kite....ade yg suka akan kite tp mgambil kesempatan atas kebaikan kite....ssh nak jangka semua ini....kehidupan di atas muka bumi ini x semuanyer indah....dan x semuanye duka....mungkin ade sbb mengapa semua ini terjadi....aku x salah kan sesiapa perkara2 ini berlaku ats diri ku!!malah aku bersyukur...why??semua ni adalah dugaan.....dugaan dtg dr ALLAH...yg mahu mguji kekuatan dalaman kite...sanggup atau tdak kite hadapi dugaan di atas muka bumi nie....biarlah aper org nak buat atas dr kite...HANYA TUHAN SAHAJA YG TAU...DAN HANYA DIA SAHAJA YG DPT MEMBALAS SEGALA-GALANYER!!x perlu la aku tuk menangis dan membazirkan air mata tuk semua nie...ade yg lebih penting tuk air mata nie mgalir....."ya allah kau kuatkan hati dan iman ku untuk menghadapi segala dugaan yang datang darimu!!"
aku dh x peduli ape org nak kata.....biarla mulut org bkn bole d ttp....aku dh x ksah aper yg diorg nak buat....lantak la...yg penting aku happy dgn aper yg aku dpt...aper yg aku buat....asalkan aku x sesat,menyakiti org2 d sekelilingku dalam aku menuju ke jalan kebahagian.....aku perlu tuk terus hidup....tabah mghadapi segala2nye....aku percaya setiap yg terjadi pasti ade hikmahnyer....aku dh puas menangis....dr aku lahir shgga la skrunk....tdak trkira brape byk air mata mgalir....cukuplah.....enough!!
Lina....u must be strong!!!Let it be....life must go on....what comes around goes around...!!!
aku dh x sggup tuk menangis..aku dh x sanggup tuk meninggi kan suara...aku dah x sanggup tukbergaduh....mungkin lps nie...biarla aper pun yg terjadi...aku akan diam...diam lbh baik dr bercakap...aku akan truskan hdupku sperti biasa....happy...happy...dan...trus happy...buat per aku nak pikir kan semua nie...aku dh malas....muak....argghhh....biarkan!!"Ya Allah hanya engkau yang tahu apa yang telah terjadi.....semoga aku tidak mengulanginya lagi pada masa-masa akan datang"semoga die sedar akan kewujudan ku dimuka bumi ini!!mungkin bkn skrunk...tp tuk suatu hari nnt!!
Saturday, October 10, 2009
anak halal or anak haram
salam...sdah lama aku x berkata2 d blog nie...saper anak halal dan saper plak anak haram??entah la..ssh nak ckp pasal hal yg mcm nie..saper kite nak tentukan status sorang ank yg lahir dr perbuatan seorg laki dan pompuan tanpa ikatan yg sah!!salah merka....haruskah anak2 yg menjadi mangsa??bagi aku ank2 hanyalah mangsa keadaan...mereka x tau aper yg tlh berlaku...mereka lahir same seperti manusia yg lain....tp adilkah kite mgelarkan mereka ank haram??haram ker mereka??jijik sgt ker??bg aku tidak adil mereka d perlakukan begitu....salahkah jika ade yg ingin mengambil mereka sbg ank angkat??
tetapi syg..ade lg insan2 yg berotak sempit tkut dan jijik utk mengambil ank2 ini sbg ank angkat...katenyer latar belakang serta status mereka yg "haram".knaper dgn latar belakang dan status??bg aku latar belakang atau pun status tidak penting...tp aper yg penting adalah didikan kite selepas kite mgambil ank2 ini sebagai sebahagian dr keluarga kite...cara kite mendidik mereka,berikan kasih syg yg secukupnyer...x perlu la kite ungkit kisah silam ibubapa mereka...yg penting ank2 ini tdak menjadi seperti mn ibu bapa mereka....
mereka jgak berhak tuk idup...dr kite buang serta sisihkan mereka...baik kite beri pelajara....didikan agama..mereka jgak sperti ank2 yg lain...mahukan kehidupan...ade keluarga...ade yg sayangkan mereka!!
jika la d takdirkan aku ade rezeki yg lebih..ade kemampuan...aku nak ambik mereka tuk jd peneman dan jd sebhgian dr hidup aku...plg tdak pun berikan mereka tmpat perlindungan....aku x nak mereka rasa trsisih dr kihidupan masyarakat.....jika mereka d sisihkan....mereka akan jd seperti mn ibu bapa mereka...mungkin lebih truk!!!
errrmmm.....nasihat aku cume satu....kadang2 mereka yg terlalu memikirkan ttg status dan latar belakang nie...x brani nak mghadapi kenyataan hidup dan kadang2 mereka nie x pikir yg mereka nie bkn la baik sgt...smpai trlalu pikir kan latar belakang ank2 yg tdak berdosa!!
tetapi syg..ade lg insan2 yg berotak sempit tkut dan jijik utk mengambil ank2 ini sbg ank angkat...katenyer latar belakang serta status mereka yg "haram".knaper dgn latar belakang dan status??bg aku latar belakang atau pun status tidak penting...tp aper yg penting adalah didikan kite selepas kite mgambil ank2 ini sebagai sebahagian dr keluarga kite...cara kite mendidik mereka,berikan kasih syg yg secukupnyer...x perlu la kite ungkit kisah silam ibubapa mereka...yg penting ank2 ini tdak menjadi seperti mn ibu bapa mereka....
mereka jgak berhak tuk idup...dr kite buang serta sisihkan mereka...baik kite beri pelajara....didikan agama..mereka jgak sperti ank2 yg lain...mahukan kehidupan...ade keluarga...ade yg sayangkan mereka!!
jika la d takdirkan aku ade rezeki yg lebih..ade kemampuan...aku nak ambik mereka tuk jd peneman dan jd sebhgian dr hidup aku...plg tdak pun berikan mereka tmpat perlindungan....aku x nak mereka rasa trsisih dr kihidupan masyarakat.....jika mereka d sisihkan....mereka akan jd seperti mn ibu bapa mereka...mungkin lebih truk!!!
errrmmm.....nasihat aku cume satu....kadang2 mereka yg terlalu memikirkan ttg status dan latar belakang nie...x brani nak mghadapi kenyataan hidup dan kadang2 mereka nie x pikir yg mereka nie bkn la baik sgt...smpai trlalu pikir kan latar belakang ank2 yg tdak berdosa!!
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
whatever la...
dh lama x update blog nie..ermm..x tau la nak mncoret aper dkt c nie...ths week mmg rasa x best skit...x tau la knaper??mcm ade yg x kene....to all my frenz thnks cuz always support n ceria2 kan idup aku...tanpa korang aku x tau la mcm mn nak ceriakn hidup aku nie...maybe "plain" jer jdnyer.especially ida...ko mmg phm aku!!!
errmm....truk ker aku kalu trpaksa menipu n bt org trsentap??(ida ko tau kan kes ape)kadang2 aku bt nie tuk menyelamatkan keadaan b4 menjd lbh parah lg...lain kali ukur baju d bdn sendr..x slh tuk menyukai tp jgn melebihi batas!!thnks 2 kojie cuz brjaya bt skrip yg menjd!!
kadang2 ape yg kite hrp pasti tdak akn dpt d gapai...aku percaya semua 2 ade hikmah dan aku ambik 2 semua sebagai dugaan dan ujian dr allah.aku percaya suatu hr aku pasti akn dpt kebahagian yg selama nie aku cr...jgn berhenti berharap...truskan usaha....jgn putus asa...!!yg penting jgn buhsannn!!!!
errmm....truk ker aku kalu trpaksa menipu n bt org trsentap??(ida ko tau kan kes ape)kadang2 aku bt nie tuk menyelamatkan keadaan b4 menjd lbh parah lg...lain kali ukur baju d bdn sendr..x slh tuk menyukai tp jgn melebihi batas!!thnks 2 kojie cuz brjaya bt skrip yg menjd!!
kadang2 ape yg kite hrp pasti tdak akn dpt d gapai...aku percaya semua 2 ade hikmah dan aku ambik 2 semua sebagai dugaan dan ujian dr allah.aku percaya suatu hr aku pasti akn dpt kebahagian yg selama nie aku cr...jgn berhenti berharap...truskan usaha....jgn putus asa...!!yg penting jgn buhsannn!!!!
Enrique Iglesias - Maybe
If I had one single wishI go back to the moment I kissedDo you goodbye no matter how hard I triedI can't live without you in my lifeMaybe you say you still want meMaybe you say that you don'tMaybe we say it was overBaby I can't let you goI walk around trying to understandWhere we were wrong and I can't pretendIt wasn't me it wasn't youBut I'm convinced we gave up too soonMaybe you say you still want meMaybe you say that you don'tMaybe we say it was overBaby I can't let you goNothing that you lose was up to losing youThere's nothing I can takeWhen I run to you, when I come for youYou tell me I'm too lateMaybe you say you still want meMaybe you say that you don'tMaybe we say it was overBaby I can't let you go
Friday, June 12, 2009
if a man wants you....
just 4 share....
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be .
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his .
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you .
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later .
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are .
Never borrow someone else's man .
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted .
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be .
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his .
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you .
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later .
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are .
Never borrow someone else's man .
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted .
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN
salam....
salam....this is my first time buat blog...slalu just baca blog kawan or others...nmpak menarik.byk benda bole d kongsi...right...??ok...for this time nie jer la yg bole aku tulis dlm blog...if ade waktu free aku akan update lg!!salam...!!
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